Author: DATEABLE
So you’re dating someone new – would you want to know if someone else had intel about them before you went on a date? Or would you want to find out if anyone had dated (or was currently dating) your long-term partner? Julie and Yue debate the pros and cons of these ‘Are we dating the same person?’ groups and if they are helpful or harmful to your dating life. We discuss the concept of paying it forward to other daters, why it doesn’t always to work to skip to the end, and how to use these groups more effectively…
So you’ve met someone wonderful and you want the world to know….so when is the right time to introduce them to your friends? And what happens when they’ve met your crew but you’ve yet to meet any of their pals? Add in family to the mix and we got a whole discussion to unpack in this week’s brunch talk. We talk about the timing of the introductions, what this step means for different people, and why some people may be eager while others are gun shy to bring others into the budding relationship. Got a question you need answered? Hit…
Is it possible for someone to love and care about you, yet still not want anything serious? Did their words mean anything? On this week’s brunch talk we’re diving into the reasons someone can catch feelings yet still not want a relationship, why it’s often less personal than you may think, and how to come back stronger and keep your heart open for someone ready to go all in with you. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website (http://dateablepodcast.com/) for more content. Also listen to our other…
How well does ChatGPT work for dating app convos? Is it ethical? We’re diving in to discuss (and find out!) in this week’s brunch talk. We’re discussing how you’d even use AI (artificial intelligence) from the opening line to the whole conversation, how this compares to a bot or hiring a human to have conversations on your behalf, and the line between using this technology in an authentic and inauthentic way. Plus, we test out ChatGPT in real-time and give you a verdict if this is a helpful tool or not (in the context of dating app convos). Buckle up…
Why is it so difficult to be single AND happy? And why do we assume being in a relationship will bring us nothing but joy? We’re diving into science-based strategies to keep your sanity while looking for a soulmate with Dr. Jenny Taitz, Psyd. We discuss how to stop thinking about being single as a layover to a relationship, the thoughts that get in our own way, and how we can enjoy our own company even when we’re partnered up. Learn more about Dr. Jenny Taiz: https://drjennytaitz.com/ and check out her book ‘How to be Single & Happy’ today. Our…
If you’re into attachment theory & personality types, prepare to have your mind blown as we chat with Dr. Avigail Lev, PsyD about how our thought patterns and beliefs (aka our schemas) shape everything from how we show up for relationships to which partners we choose. We discuss how early childhood shapes how we show up in relationships today, the love traps we tend to fall into due to our beliefs, and how you can change your behavior to have the love life you’ve always wanted. Learn more about Dr. Avigail Lev and her services at CBT Online (https://cbtonline.com/) and…
From all the romcoms and dating advice, we’ve been told over and over again: if they wanted to, they would. They’d move mountains to be with us and if they can’t, then they just aren’t that into it. In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing when someone says they can’t do something / they aren’t ready and what this means for you, why this saying isn’t always so black and white, and how to use this information to help propel you forward in your love life. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com Follow us @dateablepodcast.…
You’re trying your best not to be the jealous type…but even the best of us can be triggered. On this week’s brunch talk we’re talking about how to not loose your shit when your partner’s ex or just flirty friend comes around, how to maintain your confidence in your relationship, and if it’s ever ok to tell someone not to be friends with this person anymore. And we’re talking about ube (which can get quite dirty) so buckle up! Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website (http://dateablepodcast.com/) for more content,…
We all have a story about ourselves that explains why our love lives aren’t falling into place…but are they even true? We’re chatting with Ben about how his lack of dating and sexual experience has caused him to identify as undateable – and how he’s letting his past get in the way of his future. We discuss why we struggle to see ourselves the way others often do, how to let go of the past so it doesn’t take over your present, and ways to date in a way that brings you closer to having the love life you want.…
So you’re on the dating apps and you start to encounter a ton of negativity – so much it’s making you start to rethink dating at all. Do you just give up? Of course not! In this week’s brunch talk, we’re talking about how you can still persevere through it all even if it feels like dating apps are a trainwreck. We discuss how to change your mindset and way of using the apps, what the negativity we’re seeing can mean for us, and ways to not let others get in the way of you finding love. Got a question you…
You know that moment…the date’s going well, and you’re wondering: should I go for it? Should I go in for that kiss? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re chatting about why this once “male” role is more fluid nowadays, ways to ease into making the move that makes your intentions known, and how to mitigate the risk of putting yourself out there. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website (http://dateablepodcast.com/) for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on…
We are often gravitated to people who different than us but how different is too different? When can we learn from each other’s differences vs. when do they get in the way? On this week’s brunch talk we discuss the key to navigating differences in a partnership, the nuances of what differences matter and which don’t, and how you can thrive in your relationship even when your partner doesn’t think or do exactly like you. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website (http://dateablepodcast.com/) for more content, virtual live show…