Author: DATEABLE

What happens when your “type” doesn’t seem to work, yet you keep gravitating towards people with similar characteristics over and over again? We’re here to learn how to reset our romantic GPS with Marc Sholes so we don’t keep steering toward the wrong partners. We discuss how attachment style plays into the partners you choose, when to work through a rough patch vs. accept it’s not the right partner for you, and how to start making different choices that lead to different outcomes for your love life. Learn more about Marc’s work at https://www.marcsholeslcsw.com/ and check out his book ‘Reset…

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So you meet someone new, and the texting is spicing up…should you or shouldn’t you send that sexy pic? And what happens when you get a sexy pic that doesn’t turn out to be so sexy? We’re chatting this week on brunch talk about how to approach this topic in a way that will turn someone on…not off. We discuss why sexy pics may be more make or break than you may think, how to think about the timing of sending the pic, and the nuances / differing factors that go into how it’ll be received. Got a question you…

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Forget the antiquated 5 Love Languages, it’s time we got some new ones with a modern twist! We’re digging into the new 7 love styles with CEO and founder of Truity, Molly Owens. We discuss why love languages are still so important 30 years later, how these new love styles have been adapted to reflect the changes in society today, and what you can takeaway about how you give and receive love. Take the new Love Styles assessment here: https://www.truity.com/test/love-styles-testand learn more about Truity: https://www.truity.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website (http://dateablepodcast.com/)  for more content, virtual live show dates, and…

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From the IG story view to continuing to profess their love, why don’t exes just go away once the relationship is over? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing what to do when you have a lingering ex and what this may mean. We discuss the different ways you can respond, why it’s important to clarify intentions before making any assumptions, and how to not let your ex derail you from having the love life you actually want. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website (http://dateablepodcast.com/)  for…

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No, we’re not talking about ChatGPT or tools that write your profile or texts (or even worse, create fake photos!). We’re talking about how AI can actually revolutionize dating apps in the way Tinder did in 2012 (over a decade ago!) Join us as we chat with Ben, the founder of Volar dating, about how they’re using AI to cut through the BS of dating apps and make them more efficient. We get it: AI is scary. Before talking to Ben, we weren’t 100% onboard either. But now, all we can see are the possibilities. So if you’re sick of…

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If you were to take sex and attraction off the table, what does it mean to have a relationship? We’re diving in with David and Yasmin about their experience being asexual and how that plays into dating, relationships, and falling in love. We discuss what it’s like not to experience sexual attraction in a world so driven by it, the difference between being asexual and aromantic, and how you can have a relationship that works for you. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website (http://dateablepodcast.com/) for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/…

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Dating can be hard (and expensive!) when you’re dating multiple people at once, never sure if that first date will amount to anything more. In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing balancing all the planning aspects of modern dating with putting your best foot forward for each new person you meet. We discuss the differences between first dates and meet and greets, how to do a “vibe check” without killing the vibe, and ways to plan more intentional lower-budget first dates that still wow. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com Our FINDING YOUR PERSON program…

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So you got a text from your ex….and they’re asking to be set up with your friend. Wait…what? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing how to respond when you get something from your ex that feels a bit in left field –and not to mention uncomfortable. We discuss if there’s ever a time when your past romantic partners and friends should date, why someone may think it would be a good idea to try to expand their dating pool this way, and ways you can respond in a way that preserves your mental health. Got a question you need…

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What happens when you meet someone you like – then you go away for a week, and they go away for a week, only to realize that your budding romance has faded away? We’re discussing how to navigate early dating when one of you is away on vacation, how to avoid the momentum dropping when you meet someone new, and ways to tell if someone is a keeper, especially when you are apart.  Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website (http://dateablepodcast.com/) for more content. Also listen…

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So you’re sick of being ghosted, breadcrumbed, roached, or whatever is the term for the latest bad dating behavior? But what happens when you realize you’re doing the exact same thing you hate to others? We’re chatting with Sonica about how she feels dating culture has caused her to succumb to the lowest common denominator by normalizing bad dating behaviors. We discuss how frustrating it can be to feel like you’re trying in a world where everyone else isn’t, why dating app culture has changed how we treat one another, and how you can rise up to meet people that…

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As we approach the new year, how can you change your outlook on dating? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing how to feel more hopeful about finding love in 2024 – so you bring that energy to dating. We discuss tactics to change your mindset (no affirmations, promise!), how to surround yourself with supportive and optimistic people, and some quick and easy changes you can make today that’ll set you up to approach dating differently next year.  Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website (http://dateablepodcast.com/)  for…

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We say we want the life partner…yet we focus on qualities that make a great prom date. Let’s unpack with Logan Ury about the surprising science that will help you find love – and how she’s learned firsthand what really matters in a long-term partner when life doesn’t always go smoothly. We discuss swiping past perfect matches (as she did initially with her now-husband Scott), filtering for the qualities that really matter, and how to date smarter knowing the irrational behavior we may possess. Follow Logan Ury at @loganury and check out her new book ‘How to Not Die Alone’…

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