Author: DATEABLE

You always hear: listen to your gut, follow your heart, trust your intuition. But what does that even mean? We’re chatting with one of our favorite past guests, Nikki Novo, about how to connect with your intuition so you can cultivate trust and bravery in your love life. We’re discussing how to trust your instincts better when dating, the balance of listening vs. overthinking, and how to relinquish control in a way that still keeps you in the driver’s seat of your love life.  Follow Nikki Novo @nikkinovo and check out her new book ‘Soul-Led Living: Discover your soul’s true…

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Have you ever been worried your anxious attachment style sabotages your relationships? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re dissecting what “coming on too strong” even means and how to reframe it. We discuss guidance on how to approach the initial stages of dating, ways to make sure your real self – not your date self – is shining through, and how to be more confident you aren’t scaring away the wrong people. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website (http://dateablepodcast.com/) for more content. Also listen to our other podcast…

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When we’re dating we always want to know…is this person as invested in me as I am in them? Are they serious about this relationship? But what happens when all the boxes are checked but you still are unsure? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re talking about how DTR’ing and putting labels on a relationship aren’t everything, how you can communicate what a relationship means to you, and why expressing how you feel and giving the space for a partner to meet you is what a relationship is all about. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at…

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So you have a date set up but they are a bit text heavy before you’ve even met in person. In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing the line of texting and how much is too much or too little We discuss everyone’s texting preferences, why evaluating based on texts before you know the person isn’t a good strategy, and ways to actually spot red flags while dating. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website (http://dateablepodcast.com/) for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit…

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Who should pay on the first date? Is there ever a time where ghosting is OK? Is there a polite way to break-up? We’re finding out as we dive into modern dating etiquette with an expert in the space, Myka Meier. We discuss why etiquette goes beyond just rules to follow, how changing gender dynamics challenge traditional roles, and some universal tips of how to bring your a-game while dating. Follow Myka @mykameier and check out her website: http://beaumontetiquette.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website (http://dateablepodcast.com/)  for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard…

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With Valentine’s Day (and our new season!) right around the corner, what better way to end our bonus episodes than with a v-day prep guide. Whether you’re pretending this day doesn’t exist, celebrating with a new partner, hitting the town for galentine’s day (or the bro equivalent), or snuggling with your beau of many years, we’re diving into how to prep for the big day, the best gifts for every stage of a relationship, and how to shower yourself and others with love regardless of your status. Our Finding Your Person program is back for v-day’s day! Registration will be…

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What can the social and life sciences tell us about the most fundamental and unquantifiable human experience—love? Join us as we chat with Dr. Anna Machin about why we love and the science behind our closest relationships. We discuss the importance of not just romantic love but the love we share with friends, family and even pets, why we’re all wired differently from how we love to when we say the l-word, and why it’s essential love bravely even in a world where it feels like dating sucks. Learn more about Dr. Anna Machin, visit https://annamachin.com/ and check out her latest…

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From early dating to reaching certain milestones of relationships, we can all put up our armor of self-protection in ways that actually hurt us in the long haul. We’re chatting with Dr. Raquel Peel about her research and personal experience as a recovering romantic self-saboteur. We discuss why we self-sabotage even the best of relationships, signs to watch out for including the four horsemen of the apocalypse, and how to get out of this cycle that’s getting in your own way. Learn more about Raquel’s research: https://www.raquelpeel.com/ and watch her TEDx talk: youtube.com/watch?v=kpIbl34SPNc&feature=youtu.be Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website…

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Maybe you had a date or a series of them that were fine. You *could* see them again but would also be perfectly OK if your paths never crossed again. But all this does is make you apathetic about dating and seeing them again. In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing how to start having great dates, why giving people more chances can work if you change your approach to each date, and ways to make the whole process a lot more enjoyable. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic.…

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What if you could throw out all the rules and create your own Do-it-Yourself Vision of a relationship? We’re talking about how to design your love life with one of our favorites, psychotherapist Ken Page, on his podcast Deeper Dating. We’re discussing the visions of dating across ages, how you use your North Star when dating, and ways you can less attached to the outcome – but still intentional – on having the love life you desire. Follow Ken @deeperdating, listen to Deeper Dating Podcast, and learn more about Ken here: https://deeperdatingpodcast.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website (http://dateablepodcast.com/)  for…

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Move over EQ, we’re shifting from emotional intelligence to relational intelligence as we chat with Dr. Adam Bandelli about why mastering relational intelligence is the #1 thing you need to focus on while dating. We discuss the 5 essential skills for building long-lasting, life-changing romantic connections, why developing rapport is more important than establishing chemistry, and how relational intelligence plays into all aspects of a relationship from when we meet to 30 years down the line. Learn more about Adam: https://bandelliandassociates.com/ and check out his book ‘Relational Intelligence’ today. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website (http://dateablepodcast.com/) for more content,…

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If you got your heart crushed – or even if the breakup was amicable – does it make sense to stay in touch with your ex? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing the No Contact Rule and how it can help you move forward. We discuss how no contact doesn’t have to be forever, ways to set boundaries so you’re putting yourself first, and what to do instead when you inevitably want to reach out to them. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website (http://dateablepodcast.com/)  for more…

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